Like, something was missing…and you felt like you were losing yourself?
Life is so unexpected.
It never goes the way we want. The way we planned it.
Now, I’m not saying that we shouldn’t plan anything in our lives.
Make things happen, but be ready to deal with unexpected stuffs too.
And, sometimes in a moment, life changes.
We get a new job. New work environment.
New relationship comes by.
A new social circle.
It can be anything which just drops out of the universe.
Now, we get so caught up in this “new” thing that just happened to us, that eventually we start to lose ourselves.
This happens because we are trying to adapt to that “new” thing that just happened to us – it’s freaking awesome.. that soulmate love is finally here! Or, my dream job is finally here!
It’s called the honeymoon phase in a new relationship where everything is beautiful.
But, what happened when the phase fades?
The reason why it is important to stand up your ground always.
It’s human nature to get caught up in new stuffs happening around you
So how do you NOT lose yourself in the process?
- You’re responsible for your happiness. Put Yourself First (PYF)
Putting yourself first isn’t selfishness!
It’s Self- Love.
We have only one life.
And, we all deserve the best of happiness.
Always ask yourself this –
“Does it makes me happy? ”
If the answer is no, then don’t fucking do it!
If it’s yes, then Just go for it! And, let the universe take care of the rest!
- Don’t let go your “self-love time”.
It’s normal to get caught up in your new, busy , routine life in the beginning.
But, seriously – Get Your Shit Together when your life has settled down.
Your “me” time? Don’t let it go for anything..
It is so important to have your self-love time every day.
Do what you love every single day of your life
It doesn’t have to be a big thing.. what do you love?
Just do it!!!
Because, that’s who you are!
- Be You. Always.
When you enter a new environment, a new circle of life, it is normal to feel yourself being moulded to this particular environment.
And, along the way you may feel like losing yourself just to adapt to this.
You gotta be comfortable with this –
“People will judge you. They will laugh. Criticize. Make you feel inferior. Or that you’re not good enough.”
When you come across those kinds of people, this is actually the universe telling you that these are not your people who will make you grow.
And, it is at this time that you gotta be yourself more.
Stand up your ground.
You’re unique. Different.
But, you know what? That’s what makes you awesome!
The right people will cherish you
Originally posted on I HEART MY LIFE by Neha Gunnoo